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Why you need to do a boudoir session before your wedding day

18 May 2018 | Categories: Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

My Top 4 Reasons To Do A Bridal Boudoir Session  – Michelle Hayes Studio

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I’ve had many women experience a boudoir session with me before their wedding day and I’d like to share with you the amazing things that can come from this type of shoot.

It’s not an engagement shoot where you have to share the spotlight with your fiancé and it’s not wedding day images where you will be sharing with family and friends. This is an intimate experience for you and your partners’ eyes only. So, you can do/wear whatever you want and not have to worry about how you look to friends and family. It’s a time to enjoy being a bride and feel beautiful.

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Many brides come back to me after the wedding and thank me for an experience that they didn’t realize they needed and didn’t know how much they would appreciate what they go out of it. Here are a few reasons why I think every bride should experience a boudoir session…

#1 – It will give you a confidence boost that you will not expect.

I’m sure you are thinking posing in your underwear is probably the most nerve-racking experience and there’s no way you can gain confidence from this but on the contrary you will find it to be empowering. My shoots are designed to bring our YOUR unique personality so you feel like your best self. We will highlight what makes you beautiful inside and out, which I like to call your Beauty Mix, so you feel authentically beautiful. You can carry this confidence all the way down the aisle to your fiancé!

#2 – You can use a boudoir session as a time to test out your hair and makeup look for your wedding day.

I’ve had many brides come in with their hair and makeup professional and use the look for their boudoir session. You can also ask them to change to a bold lip if you want to glam it up for another look.

#3 – Invite your Bridesmaids and have your Bachelorette Party during/after the shoot.

You will have had an amazing experience feeling confident and like a queen with your hair and makeup done, so why not party afterward? Or you can bring in food and drinks to the studio and get photos for everyone. It’s the ultimate Girls’ Night Out!

#4 Give yourself a pampering experience before the big day.

Many brides have been planning their wedding for months, even years, and many do it all by themselves. I know this can be draining and time-consuming so I invite you to take some time for yourself and allow yourself to be pampered. You deserve this time just for yourself. Imagine planning your outfits, coming to a studio to get your hair and makeup done by a professional, and be treated like a supermodel for the day. Plus, once you see your beautiful images you will be able to re-live the experience all over again!

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I invite you to have a special experience before your big day. I would love to chat with you about designing a shoot that’s all about YOU!

And to get you started on this fun adventure I invite you to download my free Dream Shoot Planner to get you excited to design your very own shoot!

Contact me or call me at 347-684-1088 to get more info about this special shoot. I’d love to chat!

Michelle

Michelle Hayes Studio Manifesto – NYC boudoir & beauty photographer

26 Feb 2018 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

Hi I’m Michelle!

I’m a portrait photographer and Beauty Mix advocate on a mission to empower women to FEEL their beauty so that it exudes into portraits. I capture the confidence that SHOWS UP when women claim the inner and outer qualities that make them beautifully unique.This is what I like to call your Beauty Mix.

I’d like to share my Manifesto with you. This is the philosophy of my portrait business and I hope you are able to extract the essence of my business and what you can expect in a photo shoot with me. This is my invitation to you to understand my portrait philosophy so that one day you will hopefully experience a portrait session with me…

 

 

7 Day Beauty Mix Experience - Michelle Hayes Studio

05 Feb 2018 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

It’s  a Beauty Experience and YOU’RE invited!

I’m hosting a free online 7 Day Beauty Experience to discover your own Beauty Mix

PLUS! There will be a chance to WIN a complimentary photo shoot with Michelle Hayes Studio 

 

This is an invitation for all women to discover their own unique Beauty Mix, to celebrate it and share it with the world.

What is Beauty Mix?

Beauty Mix encompasses everything on the inside, as well as the outside, that makes you uniquely YOU. It’s the way you laugh, your beautiful eyes, your tender heart to your curly hair.

I  believe that loving yourself begins with knowing your own unique beauty and accepting it, the good and the bad. That’s not only beauty, that’s power. 

I  want to uncover & highlight  YOUR unique Beauty Mix through a self accepting experience that includes a chance to win a photo shoot with me!

Let’s expand the definition of beauty and show the world how incredible it is to let your own beauty shine.

ABOUT THE FREE 7 DAY ONLINE BEAUTY EXPERIENCE:

The online challenge starts Monday February 26th, 2018

Through this beauty experience you will… 

  • discover your own Beauty Mix in a fun and uplifting way to boost self-confidence
  • feel good in your own skin no matter what your size, shape or perceived imperfections
  • claim your beauty so you feel radiant, magnetic and empowered 
  • see and feel the beauty in being a woman so you can inspire other women to do the same. 
Sign up HERE

 

We’ll start the challenge Monday February 26th, 2018 when you’ll get the first day’s email.

  • There will be a new experience in your email every day.
  • Private Facebook group with support and accountability
  • Special surprises at the end of each daily challenge

After the Beauty Experience, you will be entered in a giveaway for a FREE photo shoot with Michelle Hayes Studio 

Your own Beauty Mix photo shoot will take place in one of these locations where I will be hosting a pop-up Beauty Mix portrait event in 2018…San Diego, Ca. or Albuquerque/Sante Fe, NM, or New York City. More cities to come!

This amazing prize will include:

  • complimentary photo shoot 
  • wardrobe styling assistance 
  • in-person consultation to design your own shoot
  • one (1) hi-res image or one (1) 8×10 fine art print of your choice

 

Sign up HERE to take part in the free beauty celebration.

It’s starts Monday February 26th!

Be sure to join the private Facebook Group where we will go on this journey together and support each other.

Be sure to invite friends who would like or need an experience like this. Let’s do this together and uplift each other.

**BONUS! every friend who joins you will get another entry towards the free photo shoot. So invite as many friends as you want for more chances to win!

To be eligible for the photo shoot prize:

-Must be willing to travel to one of the three locations listed on the Beauty Mix pop-up event (prize does not include airfare/lodging to locations)

-Must be willing to sign a full Model Release for our marketing material (printed and or blog, etc)

Sign up HERE! 

xxoo

Michelle

Beauty is in the Eye of the Beholder… – Michelle Hayes Studio NYC

21 Sep 2017 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

…YOU are the BEHOLDER

Ladies.  I have to admit that most of my life I’ve been waiting around for someone to deem me beautiful. All I wanted was for someone to think of my wild curly hair as beautiful and that desire prevented me from cultivating that love for myself.

Waiting for someone to think that I’m beautiful has been so exhausting because looking to others to feel beautiful always comes up empty.

I’m done waiting around. I’m going to take back that power and claim my own beauty. There I did it.

I  am beautiful.

Does that make me full of myself? Maybe, but it’s better than feeling not enough and looking to others to validate my beauty. That leaves me feeling dis-empowered.

This is how we spread more authentic beauty in this world and the world needs to see more beauty right now more than ever, don’t you think? 

 
It’s called Beauty empowerment and this movement is long overdue ladies. 
 
We’ve sat back waiting around for others to validate our beauty for a very long time now. Who gets to decide what’s beautiful? Is there a committee? A task force of already deemed beautiful people? It sure feels that way sometimes.
 
The most liberating thing a woman can do is to know what makes her beautiful inside and out, claim it, and then shine that beauty back out in the world for others to see and be inspired by. Because when she knows that in her bones then it doesn’t matter what someone does, or doesn’t, think of her. That’s true power.
 
I know it’s easier said than done to proclaim “I’m beautiful!” and to really believe it. Women have been conditioned to believe we must look a certain way and ignore what makes us unique for a very long time. But, there’s a shift that needs to happen in how we think of beauty and it needs to shift back to ourselves so we can discover it and own it for ourselves. 
To me feeling beautiful encompasses everything on the inside as well as the outside that makes you unique. It’s everything from your big beautiful brown eyes, your laugh, your tender heart to your curly hair. I call this your Beauty Mix. It’s your own personal beauty receipt that no one else shares.

Here are a few easy ways to discover your own Beauty Mix

Be compassionate with yourself… 
Nothing good can ever come from beating yourself up about the way you look. This is a fact. You can not fully feel beautiful inside and out if you are shaming, blaming and wishing any part of your body was different. You see to fully embrace the beautiful you, you will need to love yourself. All of yourself. Yes, I know self love is a hot topic these days. But it’s the foundation to believing deep down that you are beautiful. If you can’t love yourself yet, then start with just accepting yourself now and see where it leads.
 
Take exquisite care of yourself…
When you take exquisite care of yourself you will develop deep self respect. Now I said exquisite care and that means giving yourself attention and being present while doing any form of care of your body, mind and soul. Anyone can spend an hour getting a massage or running, but when you are fully engaged in the act of taking the time to pay respect to your body you begin to feel so much better about yourself. You can slow way down and appreciate the delicate and beautiful relationship you can have with yourself. That’s self compassion and we need to be doing a better job at that. 
 
Stop comparing your beauty to others…
Comparison is the kiss of beauty death. We are all so uniquely different it really doesn’t make sense to try to compare oneself to another. I know the media, especially fashion magazines, likes to tell you straight up who is considered beautiful. But the world is made up of so many different flavors and styles we can appreciate just by walking out our front door! Why do we need a magazine to tell us who is considered beautiful? 
 
When you have compassion for yourself, take exquisite care of yourself and stop comparing yourself to others then you can begin to uncover what is uniquely special about your own beauty. 
I challenge you to find at least 3 things you find beautiful about yourself. You’ve done it for other people so I know you can turn seeking out beauty on to yourself.  Let me know what’s your own Beauty Mix. I’d love for you to share it with me and the world. 
 
 
To find out how you can discover your own Beauty Mix in a more in-depth, fun and empowering way email me to sign up for my next online 5 Day Beauty Mix Challenge or contact me to schedule a consultation if you’d like to experience a transformative photo shoot with me. 
 
XOXO
Michelle

How to prepare for your boudoir session – Michelle Hayes Boudoir Studio San Diego

05 Apr 2017 | Categories: Boudoir, Make up tips, What to wear | Posted by: Michelle

Planning and preparing for your photo shoot is a big part of the Boudoir experience and I want you to enjoy ever step of the process. Plus, getting ready for your session is the best excuse to take sometime to pamper yourself and get in some ME time. When was the last time you had any of that?

I  give you permission to take some much needed time for yourself whether it be to finally book a facial, get some highlights put in, have a body scrub or just taking the time to lather your body with that expensive body lotion you never seam to use. 

“Prepping for the shoot can be a great excuse to pamper yourself”

Here are a few tips to do (a month before and leading up to the day of your shoot) to ensure you are well prepared for your session and arrive ready to have some fun. 

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After our consultation, where I get to find out all your ideas an desires for the shoot, I will ask you to create a Pinterest board. This is a great way for you to find inspiration, get ideas for wardrobe and hair + makeup and be a little creative. I have many boudoir boards where you can find inspirations. Feel free to pin anything that catches your eye and doesn’t have to be boudoir related at all. Then you can share the board with me and we can go over what you came up with. If you have no idea and don’t think you are the creative type, don’t worry. This is not mandatory, it’s just to have a little fun creating your ideal shoot. 

 

 

Once we have an idea of mood, clothing ideas, how you want your makeup applied and your hair styled, it will be time to get your wardrobe together. You have two options.

1. Go shopping in your own closet and use pieces that you love and feel good in. Here’s my “10 Ten Wardrobe Ideas guide” I put together to give you some inspiration. We can make anything look sexy it doesn’t have to be lingerie.

2. If you want to splurge and get yourself something new, go shopping! Have fun trying on different styles and colors and if you don’t know what you  look good in then ask a knowledgeable salesperson.

I  highly suggest asking a knowledgeable sales person in a lingerie store for their help and opinion.

They have a trained eye and will gladly fit you to ensure the proper garments for your body type. I have a list of boutiques I can guide you to for assistance. 


We all know that photo shop can fix many out of the ordinary “imperfections” that pop up, but I suggest prepping the skin beforehand as best as you can to reduce the amount of post processing. I don’t do a lot of editing to my images to begin with, but if we can start with a good canvas then you will not need any extra “fixing”. Here are some helpful things you can do to ensure your skin and hair look it’s best and that you feel good in general… 

  1. Get a facial (at a spa)
  2. Try a body scrub and facial scrub treatment (in-home)
  3. Start moisturizing you body with something decadent
  4. Get your teeth whitened (whitening strips work wonders)
  5. Start to increase your daily water intake
  6. Get a bikini/leg/armpit wax
  7. Get your roots/highlights touched up/hair trimmed
  8. Deep conditioning treatment (at home or salon)
  9. Treat yourself to a massage to relax
  10. Start moving your body with non strenuous exercise like yoga, pilates, walking, or this amazing practice called Qoya. It’s a great way to feel comfortable in your own skin!

 

You absolutely don’t need to do everything on this list. It’s not mandatory, but it will get you in the mood and we all know feeling and looking good will lead to being more relaxed in front of the camera which will give you natural and beautiful images!

 

Day of Shoot Checklist:

  1. Double check everything you will be bringing the night before and make sure that you leave plenty of time to get to the destination without stressing
  2. Eat something! You will need a lot of energy for all the posing. It can be a lot of work so please eat something!
  3. If you didn’t get a wax then shave necessary parts, legs, armpits, bikini area, etc. 
  4. Come with a freshly washed and moisturized face and dry, clean hair so that my hair stylist/makeup artist can start right away. 
  5. Don’t wear clothing with tight elastic bands that could leave a mark on your skin

 

Shoot time! This is where the fun begins…

If you want more info about designing and getting prepared for your shoot download my free Dream Shoot Planner and start dreaming up ways to pamper yourself before your shoot!

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Feel beautiful now with my top 3 beauty products…

03 Jan 2017 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir, Make up tips | Posted by: Michelle

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As you know, I am so passionate about helping women to feel good about themselves, inside + out. Think about it. Don’t you just want to feel good about being YOU, and not worry about looking or being a certain way? Doesn’t that sound/feel so liberating and way easier on yourself?

I know everyone wants to feel good about themselves, but from working with a lot of women I know that it’s just not that easy for most of us. We have a hard time doing things for ourselves that make us feel good. So, in addition to my photoshoots, I want to offer more ways for women to feel good about themselves …

I would love for every woman to experience a fun, pampering and transformative photoshoot with me, but I know it’s not for everyone (yet!). So, I’m making things a little easier for women by offering non-toxic skin care and professional grade makeup that will make them feel pampered and beautiful.

You know how you feel when your skin is glowing or when you put on that fab red lip?

You see, whether you book a photo shoot with me or buy some luxurious skin care to take care of yourself, the end goal is the same – to feel good about yourself, inside + out.

I’ve teamed up with LimeLight, a family-owned beauty company, who helps women everywhere look their best every day with their all natural skincare line and professional grade makeup. I’m so excited to use the products on every woman who comes into my studio for a shoot and to have them available to purchase for anyone who wants to feel good at home.

 

Here are my Top 3 Products to help you feel good…

Quench Therapist Collection

Have you been thinking of switching out your unnecessarily-chemically-filled skin care with something less um, toxic?

The luxurious, yet affordable Quench Therapist Collection is the best place to start. Your skin will thank you for taking such good care of it by giving you a healthy glow.

Enduring Lip Color All Shades headline

Are you interested in a long wearing lip color that doesn’t dry out or smear? 

The Enduring Lip Colors are sooo luxurious and wearable. I’m obsessed with the color Macaroon. Just swipe on once and feel a little fancy all day long…

Perfect Mascara

And finally, if you’ve been searching for the perfect mascara then you have to try the Perfect Mascara.

I’m a mascara junkie. One xmas my sis-in-law gave me a collection of 12 mascaras and I was beyond excited! I’ve tried every mascara out there and this one is my favorite. It doesn’t smudge on me and that is a miracle in it self.

Bonus Product (I couldn’t pick just 3 y’all!)

skincare v2 skin polish

If you want your foundation to glide on, and not cake throughout the day, you must exfoliate, especially in the winter. It’s a little tougher to keep your skin glowing during these harsh months.

My new favorite way to take time for myself is to have a little spa night. I’ll break out the wine, exfoliate and then mask my face. I have a product that will do both!

The amazing Skin Polish starts off as a scrub… and then turns into a mask. What?! Yes. And it smells like a lemon cookie. Heaven..

If you’re interested in learning more about these fabulous products, check out LimeLight where I know you’ll find something that will make you feel good. Go on, you deserve it!

You’ll also be supporting a family-owned business who really has a heart, wants to clean up the beauty industry and empower women to create a business on their own.

That’s my kind of beauty power.

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I  hope you have a Healthy, Happy & Beautiful New Year!…

…and don’t forget to do something special for yourself. You deserve to feel good.

Love & Beauty,

Michelle

Interested in a Boudoir or Beauty session with me and want more info?

Start here. Sign up for my free Dream Shoot Planner that will give you inspiration on what to wear for your very own shoot!

Michelle Hayes Studio Referral Program

26 Jan 2016 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

I’m launching my MHS referral program and I want to tell you all about it so you can spread the word about the experience with me AND get fabulous products of your shoot for free!

It’s very simple. When you refer a VIB (a very important Beauty!) to me and they book and complete their session, I will credit you $100 towards the purchase of goods from your own session. That includes prints, albums, folio box and digital negatives. 

This is a great way to cut down the cost of your session because I know you will want to purchase every single image from your shoot when you see them and I want you to have a tangible product that you can drool over again and again.

There’s nothing like holding a beautiful 8×10 print of yourself, or thumbing through the pages of a perfectly designed album of the best images from your session, or watching a loved one open up the gift box to reveal the classy leather cover album filled with your knock-their-socks-off images ;)

Here’s a breakdown of what you can earn with every referral:

refer 6 clients and get enough credit for a 8×8 16 page album (valued at $600)

refer 8 clients and get enough credit for a 8×8 20 page album (valued at $800)

refer 10 clients and get enough credit for a 8×8 30 page album (valued at $1200)

Here’s my beautiful 8×8 album with a black cover…

Rebecca’s reveal of her Boudoir images – Michelle Hayes Studio Boudoir NYC

06 Nov 2015 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

Rebecca had the most colorful, fun, creative, and sexy boudoir session and here she is coming back to the studio to see her pictures for the first time.

She didn’t know I would be printing out a few so to see her reaction was pretty awesome. It’s days like this, when I see the full circle of what I get to create for women, that overwhelm emotionally me as a woman, artist and business owner. I don’t think there is a more fulfilling feeling than seeing a client look at her beautiful images, she herself in a new light and really fall in love with herself. 

We also talked in length about this session and what the experience was like for her as a woman doing this type of shoot for no one other than herself. She made this shoot all about her, her interests, her personality and it really showed in the beautiful images that we were able to create as a team, with the help of my amazing makeup artist Tiffany who was able to make her sexy and fun side shine through.

Be sure to listen to Rebecca describe how she felt when she viewed them at her reveal session in the video below…

 


Ladies! How often do you let yourself be pampered? Michelle Hayes Studio Boudoir

23 Oct 2015 | Categories: Beauty, Boudoir | Posted by: Michelle

Check out my client Angelica fully enjoying getting her hair and makeup done by my fab makeup artist Tiffany. I just love this pic.

Now Angelica is no stranger to makeup, dressing up and throwing on some glitter and hair extensions. She loves to do all that on her own, but she is letting someone else style her hair and expertly apply her makeup and loving every minute of it.

It got me thinking of all the ways we, especially women, are skimping on letting ourselves be pampered, in big or small ways, because we know we can just do it ourselves.

Here are some experts that I enjoy getting pampered by even though I know I can probably do some of this beautifying on my own. It’s also nice to experience other people’s craft and appreciate how much better they are at it than me.

Feel free to add any services you love getting done by others even though you can do it yourself! …

Makeup application:
San Diego
Tiffany Bociek - https://www.facebook.com/tiffany.bociek/about
Gerine Coronado - http://beautybygerine.com/
Hair
Jessica Kephart https://www.facebook.com/jessica.freitag.509/about
Facials:
Urban Skin Care - http://www.urbanskincare.com/
New York
Muah Makeup - http://www.muahmakeup.com/
Rebecca Casciano - http://www.rebeccacasciano.com/
Hair & Makeup
Candice Crawford - https://www.facebook.com/candice.h.crawford/about

Beautiful + Inspiring Stephanie – Michelle Hayes Studio Glamour Session

16 Oct 2015 | Categories: Beauty | Posted by: Michelle

Stephanie was a dream to shoot in my studio because her beauty just radiated from the inside out, in addition to having the most amazing ocean blue eyes. She is a mom of a gorgeous young daughter, a wife, and busy professional with two careers! One of them being with Beauty Counter who’s company mission is to get safer beauty products in the hands of everyone. Thank you Stephanie for being a part of this important movement!

I  am in awe of this beauty and what she is contributing to her family, her community and ultimately everyone else with the hope of a better way of taking care of ourselves. 

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