I started shooting Boudoir because a few of my brides wanted to do it as an amazing wedding gift for their fiances. It was an amazing, unexpected gift that always knocked their socks off. But, I also noticed that the women were totally surprised by the whole process and thoroughly enjoyed the photoshoot. I knew it was going to be a blast but I really don’t think they were expecting it to be so much fun. Women are usually so focused on not wanting to look awkward that they are completely surprised by how much they enjoyed to shoot!
I’ll give you a little snap shot of what goes on in a Boudoir or Glam session…
First we go over wardrobe selection and I help you style your outfits. Then you get to sit and have a professional artist style your hair and expertly apply your makeup. It’s a really relaxing process that I’ve noticed many women appreciate and enjoy.
We start the photo shoot where I give you guidance with posing using a mirroring technique., which means I pose and you copy me. It’s very easy. Your nerves dissolve and you are smizing for the camera feeling all Top Model-like. I’m not the noted Nigel Barker with a soothing British accent, but I will be telling you how amazing you are doing throughout the process. I’ll show you the back of the camera to confirm how great you are doing. You begin to see yourself in a new light, then you start to enjoy yourself, which then in turn makes you even more beautiful in front of the camera! In the end this pampering and confidence-boosting experience is all for the women and no one else.
So a year later and I’m still shooting Boudoir for bride-to-be’s, who are doing this to give to their fiances, and women who are doing this to celebrate an anniversary and I’m loving it. But, I begin to think do women really need a reason to experience this? What about the women who don’t have a partner or are not getting married? Shouldn’t they get to experience this as well? Hell yeah! In fact, I believe you don’t even need a reason to do this.
I want ALL women to experience this for absolutely no reason at all!
Ok, if you need a reason then I’ll give you one…
How about to look + feel beautiful for your own sake?
I’d say that’s a pretty damn important reason to do it because I think many women feel like they need to be in a relationship in order to do something like this. It’s that ever elusive once I get a partner, then I will feel ______. Beautiful? Amazing? Worthy? Those are all things you can feel now. And I bet if you start to feel those things now just for the sake of loving your own beauty then when you do meet someone they will appreciate it even more because you are already appreciating it. Win, win all around!
So here’s what I say about when to do a Boudoir, or Glam session (if you’re not comfortable in lingerie)…
Do it for yourself now and once you have these beautiful images that will forever capture your unique beauty then you can decide if you’re going to share them with someone else. A REALLY lucky someone else
In my last blog post I wrote about being featured in Cosmo.com, well pictures of my clients were featured with a snippet of why they did a boudoir session. They are single women who did a Boudoir session just for themselves. You can read about their experiences here and hear about their experiences.
Feel free to give me a call for your complimentary consultation about doing a Boudoir or Glam session for no reason what so ever!
Oh and it’s always fun to share Pinterest boards where you’ll find some helpful pics to plan your next Boudoir or Glam session and cuz it’s ADDICTING to pin!